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Beauty and Capitalism

[hijab flutter ~ Muslema]

Verbage Note: A really good article on how we worship beauty.

As I am in the midst of reading Max Weber’s The Protestant Ethic and the Spirit of Capitalism, I thought it appropriate to resurrect this essay I wrote back in 2005 after my first brief encounter with the modeling/fashion industry. As Weber so ably demonstrates, it is not the forms of production that shifted so drastically with the onset of the capitalist revolution, but rather the “ethos,” or “spirit” of labor and acquisition, which came to be seen as moral goods in and of themselves. This radical change took natural human qualities like greed and acquisitiveness and channeled them into a new controlled, disciplined approach to work in which increasing efficiency and production was a goal in and of itself – a benchmark of a person’smoral development. This precipitated a change in the relationship between consumers and producers, and indeed in the way capital was managed. As Weber says, “Wherever this spirit becomes active and is able to have an effect, it acquires the money reserves to be used as a fuel for modern capitalism’s activity – not the other way around” (2009, 82).

It struck me that the same “capitalization” of labor and profit could be applied to the way society sees beauty. Like seeking profit, worshiping female beauty is nothing new, but never in history has it been so commodified. It is no accident that Weber sees the “spirit of capitalism” emerging from a religious ethos – as profit became god, so did its spinoffs like fame and beauty. We now have an arsenal of celebrities who are famous for being famous, and women who are famous for being beautiful. The latter, I argue at the end of the essay, are indeed deified, especially by legions of insecure and fragile young women. Similarly, they strike fear into the hearts of many insecure men, who believe their unattainability reflects the unattainability of women in general – again reinforcing the equation of “woman” with what is seen and desired. I would much appreciate any of your comments and feedback.

It seems that the otherworldly “alien” look is what fashion moguls want; take for instance the well-known cases of Kate Moss and Gemma Ward. The same extraterrestrial standards apply to body as well as face: superfine bone structure, the only curve permissible being in the hips when the body is viewed from the front, and in the buttocks when viewed from the side. The stomach should be concave.

Forget being 5′10 with a 24″ waist – our culture’s beauty ideals have become, quite literally, inhuman.

Regrettably, being American and European (which is even worse in this regard – Europeans are far less forgiving of fat in women and girls than are Americans), I have internalized many of the fashion industry’s beauty standards (though Moss is still a stretch). At this point there appears to be very little I can do about it. It’s like a drug habit that I’ve tried several times to kick, only to relapse upon seeing any magazine in which fashion models are featured. Designers claim that what they want from models is a blank canvas on which to paint, a hanger-like body on which clothes become the most apparent aspect of the ensemble. But I think we all know that the fashion industry is as much about designing people beauty as it is about designing beautiful clothes. And even if they don’t do it self-consciously, it most certainly is the case de facto.

And let’s face it: 99% of women will never ever look like models, nor will they have their pictures taken with teams of people working to make them look as good as possible. And with the ready availability of pictures of these stunning women (perhaps “mermaids” or “goddesses” would be more accurate, since, as I’ve been saying, the human resemblance is stretched), what’s to keep men interested in us day to day females besides our proximity and the unattainability of models? It’s a question many women, subconsciously or consciously, ask themselves.

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Voices of Guantanamo

Be Not Grieved

a ghazal of Hafiz

Joseph who was lost will come back again to Canaan; be not grieved.

One day the hut of sorrows will become a rose garden; be not grieved.

This saddened heart will change its state (for the better); do not make thy heart bad.

And this frenzied head will settle down again; be not grieved.

If the Springtime of Life will be back again on the garden’s throne,

thou wilt pull a canopy of roses over thy head; O sweetly singing bird, be not grieved.

O heart, if the torrent of troubles engulfs the foundation of existence,

when thou hast Noah for a captain, from the storm be not grieved.

If one day the spinning wheel (of fortune) did not run according to my wishes,

the state of revolving will not always be the same; be not grieved.

Come, do not despair when thou art not aware of the secret of the Unseen;

behind the veil there be hidden plays; be not grieved.

If thou wouldst walk in the desert with the desire of reaching the Ka‘bah,

if the thorn of the acacia hurts thee, be not grieved.

Though the stage of the journey be quite perilous, and the goal so far away,

there is no path that does not have an end; be not grieved.

My state is in the separation of souls and the persistence of the antagonist.

The Lord of the revolving state knows all; be not grieved.

Hâfiz, in the corner of spiritual poverty and the seclusion of the dark nights,

as long as thou art saying prayers and dhikr and studying the Qur’ân, be not grieved.

When we beseech Allah by His names, we should do so with dignity, composure, and understanding.

There are two ways that we call upon Allah. The first is to beseech him with our petitions, to entreat him with the concerns we have about our worldly lives and our hopes for the Hereafter. This is what we usually understand by supplication (dua).

The second way we call upon Allah is through our devotions. We do so by invoking His names in our remembrances, by meditating upon the meanings and significance of those names. We do so by praising Him and glorifying Him as His noble attributes warrant through devotion in our prayers, our remembrances, and in our God-consciousness.

Ibn al-Qayyim observes: “Allah is Knowing and He loves those who have knowledge. He is Beautiful and He loves beauty. He is Merciful, and He loves those who show mercy. He is Kind and He loves those who show kindness to others.”

When we take to ourselves something of the light of Allah’s beautiful names by learning what they mean and developing ourselves and our temperaments accordingly, then we have truly comprehended His names.

It is as Ibn al-Qayyim explains, that Allah is Oft-Pardoning and He loves to pardon. Therefore, He rewards and blesses those of us who pardon their fellow human beings. He is Generous and loves for us to be generous as well. He is the Concealer of Faults, and He loves it for us to conceal the faults of those who might have wronged us. He is Merciful, and He shows His mercy especially to those of us who are merciful to others.

One way that we call upon Allah’s names through our devotions is by reading the Quran. This is because the Quran is full of the mention of His names. We also do so when we call up their meanings in our minds so that they become a constant part of our lives. In this way, we become more fully reliant upon Allah, more penitent, more mindful of our conduct, and stronger in faith. These are all ways in which we bring Allah’s names to full realization in our lives.

Compiled From:
Calling Upon Allah with Our Words & Deeds” – Salman al-Oadah

The Economics of Fear

Republished from The Watchtower of Destruction | Edit: Removed all curse words.

Scientific studies have shown that you can destroy a child by calling them “smart.” Even when they’re very young, little kids know that being “smart” is what makes them special – and so, the first time they encounter something they don’t understand immediately, it’s a threat. Their specialness is in danger of being stripped away. And if they lose that smartness, then what are they?

Kids who are called smart take fewer chances. Why risk all that glorious social acclaim for a stupid test? And if you don’t really try, then you can still be smart – you may have potential, but even a six-year-old knows that having the potential to be smart gives you more benefits than finding out that no, you’re not really smart at all.

Far better to tell a kid that they’re hard working. Hard work is something you can’t take away. Hard work is something that can always be improved. Smart can just… vanish.

I was told I was very smart.

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Knowledge Passes By.

[Hijab Flutter ~ Damascus Dreams]

Ibn ‘Ata’illah said in his Hikam:

Rubamaa waradat ‘alayka al-anwaar

Fa wajadat il-qalba mahshuwan bil-aathaar

Fartahalat min haythu nazalat

“Perhaps illuminations passed by you and found your qalb (heart) filled, buried, occupied with vestiges of creation. So it took off from whence it had come.”

By Yasmin Mogahed | InFocus

“Love is a serious mental disease.” At least that’s how Plato put it. And while anyone who’s ever been ‘in love’ might see some truth to this statement, there is a critical mistake made here. Love is not a mental disease. Desire is.

If being ‘in love’ means our lives are in pieces and we are completely broken, miserable, utterly consumed, hardly able to function, and willing to sacrifice everything, chances are it’s not love. Despite what we are taught in popular culture, true love is not supposed to make us like drug addicts.

And so, contrary to what we’ve grown up watching in movies, that type of all-consuming obsession is not love. It goes by a different name. It is hawa—the word used in the Quran to refer to one’s lower, vain desires and lusts. Allah describes the people who blindly follow these desires as those who are most astray: “But if they answer you not, then know that they only follow their own lusts (hawa). And who is more astray than the one who follows his own lusts, without guidance from Allah?” (28: 50)

By choosing to submit to our hawa over the guidance of Allah, we are choosing to worship those desires. When our love for what we crave is stronger than our love for Allah, we have taken that which we crave as a lord. Allah says: “Yet there are men who take (for worship) others besides Allah, as equal (with Allah): They love them as they should love Allah. But those of Faith are overflowing in their love for Allah.” (2:165)

If our ‘love’ for something makes us willing to give up our family, our dignity, our self-respect, our bodies, our sanity, our peace of mind, our deen, and even our Lord who created us from nothing, know that we are not ‘in love’. We are slaves. Continue Reading »

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…just as metal dishes – silver, and their like – become rusty. So the rust of the heart is polished with dhikr (remembrance of Allah), for dhikr polishes the heart until it becomes like a shiny mirror. However, when dhikr is abandoned, the rust returns; and when it commences then the heart again begins to be cleansed. Thus the heart becoming rusty is due to two matters: sins and ahafah (neglecting remembrance of Allah). Likewise, it is cleansed and polished by two things: istighfaar (seeking Allah’s forgiveness) and dhikr.”

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The first masjid to be built by a woman in Turkey, where the debate over the rights of women is raging. One of the most controversial issues currently is whether or not women should be allowed to wear hijab or modest clothing, including a headscarf, to public universities.

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